This has gotten me to reflect on the Bible's descriptions and how New Testament people spoke of life after death. From those reflections I think that we need to rephrase our speech. How many times haven't you heard the phrase that someone has "died and gone to heaven?" It always seems like they missed out on the rest of their lives. But the New Testament gives a much different perspective. Instead of teaching our kids that we will someday "die and go to heaven," we need the New Testament language, which is much more to the tune of "die and go to be with Jesus in heaven." Over and over again it is about being with Jesus and not so much about going to the place. Now that is something concrete that we can give our kids (and ourselves). If we know Jesus well here, then we have one certain known thing to anticipate in heaven--getting to know Jesus in person. That is the one constant between this life and the next.
I thought I would put down some texts that reinforce this theme.
1) Luke 23:43, "Today you will be with me in Paradise."
2) John 17:24, "I desire that they. . .may be with me where I am."
3) 2 Cor 5:8, "We would rather be away from the body and at home with the Lord."
4) 1 Thess 4:17, "caught up to meet the Lord. . .so we will always be with the Lord."
5) John 14:3, "I will come again and take you to myself that where I am you may be also."
6) Phil 1:23, "My desire is to depart and be with Christ."
7) Phil 3:30, "our citizenship is in heaven and from it we await a Savior."
Some of these reflections are drawn from John Piper's main theme in God is the Gospel, that Christ died not primarily to forgive us, but to bring us to God. Piper also demonstrates that if we could be happy in a heaven that had every earthly delight but did not have Christ then we would not be one of his true children. Being with Christ is what brings his children true delight and joy, not being in a wonderful place. And laboring to know him well now is the greatest preparation for death that we can make; for then we know something of what waits for us across the river.
So let's get our wording right as we look forward to the future. Let us speak of "going to be with Jesus"--and let us make every effort to communicate the beauties and delights and pleasures that are to be found in him.
. . .in your presence there is fullness of joy; at your right hand are pleasures forevermore."
Psalm 16:11